Life Update: Relationship Truths, Stay at Home Mom, Moving Out, ADULTING

Life Update: Relationship Truths, Stay at Home Mom, Moving Out, ADULTING

Hey you guys. This is just another life update, 2 months later. I talk about still dealing with my depression, being a stay at home mom, growing my brand, relationships, and more. Love you all ❤️

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Hazel Goddesss says:

This was suppose to be a life update and it turned into another venting session. Sorry you guys 😬 I might delete this later but just keeping it real with you all and what I’m dealing with right now. Love you all ❤️❤️❤️

Taiesha Abrams says:

Look in the mirror everyday and say GIRL YOU'RE SO BEAUTIFIL I JUST LOVE YOU and you feel much better 😙

CCmysmile says:

Serious question. Have you thought about therapy? You are dealing with a LOT & maybe it would be beneficial to have a professional to reach out to when you start to feel triggered. Someone who can help you unpack your feelings & help with coping skills.

What you are feeling is not uncommon, trust me, I've been there too. What made the difference for me was understanding & acceptance of self. I spent so much time caring for others that I didn't know how to care for myself. I lost myself too & wasn't even self aware enough to realize it.
It's great that you can recognize & articulate your feelings because that's when the real healing can begin.
Remember that EVERYONE is a work in progress & there is no such thing as perfect. You were uniquely made!
Stay strong sis! You got this! 💕

WhitKnox says:

Please don’t delete!! I’m rooting for you all the way 🙏🏾 I admire your vulnerability & willing to be open with us. Take care of YOURSELF 💆🏾‍♀️🍃 self care is the best care. Do things like hot candle lighting baths, yoga, meditation, workout, journaling, etc. When you feel the depression or sadness or urge to sulk coming, literally just get up & move ..distract yourself & I swear it always helps. You should be try to be more aggressive in growing your brand & launching it into something greater that you want it to be ✨ you’re in control of everything you want in life & you can do anything you want to do just never take “No” for an answer. Everything will get better soon 🦋 just be patient & believe. Take time for yourself & take it one day at a time! ❤️ We’re always gonna be here. 😘

BeingTy says:

I am the around the same age as you 22 and have 2 children also. You need to pray more , pray, pray, pray. Always remember their is someone out here who is doing worst than you . Homeless , jobless , sick , dying. Count your blessings more and you will be less stressed . Stay blessed 😘

tc2013 says:

I hope you find your piece. I'm wondering what age you're supposed to find happiness as well. I'll be 29 in 11 days and I'm still not happy.

TheRealmeNaturally says:

A lot of those things that you were saying about your depression, i went through but mines was baby blues. I didn't believe the Dr. after i had my first Child that i could get that, but it happen to me, it was like i was dead in my soul, i had to start reading my bible, and pray, it was like my back was up against the wall, i asked God to please don't let me go through this again , with my other children, and i can truly say; that i didn't go through that again, i did take care of my baby, i just didn't want to do nothing for myself, i started asking why am i here. my husband was by my side though, I just Thank God for keeping me through that, because i truly had to turn to him in that situation

isabella says:

We care about you like that girl!! Continue with the “life updates” !

kai minto says:

I feel you! I have a toddler & newborn & live in a state where I don’t have friends or family either.. I have to write in my journal to stay sane I know that it’s temporary & the light will soon come & I’ll be really happy & that’s all you have to do is look forward to the future cause it’s bright & you will see that it was all worth it & why you went thru it

Taylor Renae says:

Go look at Jackie Ainas divorce video from two years ago. Not that your stories are similar but it shows that sometimes great challenges are indications of great triumphs ahead . Stay strong girl biggest way to fight depression is reminding yourself this is a MOMENT, don’t let your mind trick you into thinking this is your life

Khaleia laquare says:

Girl I am the same way with not forgiving people after they do me wrong

dance lee says:

I feel for you, im in the same position. Im a stay at home mom, both my kids are one year apart, im 25 and theyre always with me, my husband works all the time, he helps when hes home, but being a stay at home mom is a hard job. My oldest which is 4 just started pre-k, my advice to you is to hold out, youll get your moment of peace !

styleNgrace woodson says:

i understand the mom part girl that is need a break

Barbie collet says:

same here girl everyone has there ow problems

Lakesha Jones says:

I love how honest you are ❤️ you really help other who are in the same mental state get through things ❤️💯💕

Aniyah Zaki says:

You are super gorg. Naturally ! You are a great mother. You are strong. You have to beautiful daughters. You keep this up, in a couple of years, you are gonna be exactly where you want to be. Just stay focus. And your daughters will love and appreciate you for all that you've done for yourself and them. Continue to be great and God bless.

simplychyna 17 says:

i love your hair so much I can't wait for mine to groowwwwww

Stephanie Powell says:

You need to be around family sweetie. ❤️ I’m the same way. I can’t do the stay at home thing and you’re right, going to work is a break from mommy duties so if you don’t have that break it’s hard. Stay prayed up and remember your kids are getting a beautiful gift by having you be their primary caretaker. Sending positivity and blessings your way.

Lalaaajohnson says:

I’m not a stay at home mom, but I completely understand where you are coming from. Work is/was a mini getaway for me! This will pass! I also deal with being negative, I find myself complaining a lot and see that my daughter does it too. So now I try to be optimistic and say positive affirmations. It’s alright keep making these kind of videos! We hear you, you are not alone. We support you ❤️

LavishlyBritt says:

Keep your head up love. I know you are going through a rough patch right now. I will keep you in my prayers. You’ve built this platform through your work effort and your grind to be better. As a mom who is also working to build a brand, I relate to you. I wish we lived closer to one another so we could help support each other career and motherhood wise. Being a stay at home mom definitely isn’t easy. Just try to give them your best everyday.

JoJo says:

No rain, No flowers. Keep pushing. Better days will come. ❤️

Telletell says:

Blessings to you.

I wish I could tell you being a working, single mom living alone (and taking care of my kids without their father), was easier, but it too is hard. I’ve found that I have to readjust my expectations of happiness and what that means, considering my situation. Prayers, talking to like-minded people also helps me. I also struggle with depression as well as anxiety so I know your struggle. Stay strong mama! You’re young, beautiful, with talent, there’s so much potential out there for you.

MrsKerri4u says:

I’m so sorry to hear this! It WILL get better. Eventually, over time, you will forgive folks. It hurts you more to be unforgiving. Do not give the enemy no room or power in your soul. Great video!!

Erika Graham says:

It’s hard to find true happiness when you’re holding onto past hurts. It blinds you to what is in front of you. You are a very brave and courageous woman, I encourage you to try and work towards forgiveness. As long as you hold on that person has control over you. Forgiveness is for you not the person who wronged you, this person has gone on to live their life and you’re stuck in the same place. Forgiveness is never easy but very necessary if we’re to live our best life. I don’t know if you believe in God, but He’s able to pull you through whatever it is you’re going through what you’re not able to say to us you can tell him. He’s there waiting on you with arms outstretched.

BeyondTheHoriahzon says:

Have you ever tried therapy? Some people just need someone to talk & vent too.

Tyiece says:

Great video. Life is a mix of good and bad for all of us. You are not alone. Usually the good outweighs the bad, focus more on the good especially in the mornings

Felicia Aldridge says:

Virtual 🤗 HUG! ♥️😘

Felicia Aldridge says:

Release sweetheart! You’re going through and have gone through A LOT! And that’s ok! You’re ok!!!

Lola B. says:

Positives vibes!!!! ❤️

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